“Life Through Another Lens” features stories of NYJL members, in their own words, to shed light on how we experience the world and the NYJL through different lenses informed by our individual identities. In this edition, NYJL member Paloma Figueroa shares how the NYJL helped her find a sense of community in New York City and other aspects of her NYJL experience. 

What prompted you to become a member of the New York Junior League and how long have you been a member?
I joined the New York Junior League as a Transfer from San Francisco in June 2023. I’m a Bronx native but spent much of my 20s and 30s in the Bay Area after an unexpected cross-country move for my partner’s career. With no job, apartment, or community, I discovered the Junior League through a Google search and quickly found it to be life-changing — helping me build both friendships and a deep connection to causes I still support today. When we decided to move back east after the pandemic, a close friend from my Provisional group encouraged me to transfer to the NYJL. I’m so glad she did — the NYJL has helped me plant new roots in my old hometown.

How do you identify yourself?
I’m a Bronx-born Nuyorican (translation = New York Puerto Rican) with deep ties to California (and a lifelong love of Mission-style burritos). I’m a foodie, a bookworm, and a proud nerd — all legacies from my parents. Professionally and personally, I’m a people person, community builder, and inclusive workplace culture strategist. I’m passionate about creating spaces where people who’ve been left out — or are the first or only in the room — feel like they can belong and thrive. That passion shows up in my work at the League, where I serve on the New Membership committee and on the Membership Engagement Events committee as a sub-chair for the LGBTQIA+ and Allies Affinity Group — a community I’m also proud to be part of.

What is one of your favorite memories or anecdotes from your time at the League?
Some of my favorite League memories happen in the Pine Room — huddled on chairs with drinks, catching up before committee meetings. I love the glam of Winter Ball and dancing in the Harriman Room during Après Ski. But what I cherish most are the group chats — full of hilarious, thoughtful, and wildly helpful messages. Whether it’s a tip about the Junior League, a heads up about local events, or recommendations for where to get a great haircut, these little moments of connection are the heartbeat of my League experience.

How would you describe the culture of the League?
The League has a wonderfully collegial energy. No matter your age, background, or lifestyle, when you walk into the Astor House, you’re surrounded by a community that’s ready to cheer you on — whether you’re launching a business, navigating life in NYC, or simply looking for support. The NYJL is full of brilliant, kind, and dynamic people who uplift each other at every stage of life.

What would you recommend one read/watch that reflects your experience as a League member and beyond?
Last year, I read The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center by Rhaina Cohen with a few friends, and it’s a book I think about often. We’re living in tumultuous times, especially as women, and spaces like the Junior League — where community and collective care are at the center — feel more important than ever. I’m incredibly lucky to have my partner, but my life wouldn’t be as full or colorful without the friends, peers, and community I’ve found here.